there are so many trials in life. nobody can tell when it will all end. just for the simplest reasons you'll fall, sometimes you fall flat on the floor, sometimes someone will catch you and hold you close. until you let yourself fall even more for that someone. it's just a matter of trusting that person. trusting him that he will not let you go. he will never let you fall flat on the floor again. he will catch you no matter how fast you fall.
im soo thankful for the kind of life that i have… i mean come on, not everyone has a place where to crash… not everyone eats like three times a day, not everyone goes to a good school, not everyone has good friends and not everyone likes the family they have…
i know it kinda sounds cheesy and all but its true right?… you know, i don’t even know why im writing this…
well, technically, yeah, im not writing. Im TYPING. but DUH, what the hell…
well, these past few days i know not everything was perfect… i miss a lot of people, and i miss my baby devil so bad too…
bUt then at the end of the day im HAPPY. and that’s a big thing too, right? coz not everyone knows how to be happy these days.
Cinderella lost her glass slipper but she found her Prince Charming. Princess Fiona met her loving ogre in Shrek. Aurora or Sleeping Beauty once sang “someday my prince will come” and she eventually her prince came. Being “in love” is the romantic stuff fairy tales and dreams are based on, filled with passion and longing. As children, we were raised on stories filled with instant attraction, romantic longing, danger and high drama. When we grew older, these concepts of love remained in our subconscious. In the deepest corners of our hearts and minds, we secretly wish and desire that we can find our Prince or Princess. But we then remember that we don’t live in some fantasy land. Reality slaps us in the face.
In real life, falling in love is an experience to be treasured as both scary and exhilarating. When we are in love our senses are stimulated to the max. We feel a tingle, a spark, and an aliveness that we don’t feel under any other circumstances. This is what we call “chemistry”. The sight, sound or touch of our love makes our heart jump. We get exasperated, frustrated, and feel somewhat off-center because of our doubts and questions, but, like an addict, we can’t get enough! We think of ourselves as princesses in fairy tales who have found their princes!
When in love, some of us will lose all sense of self. We spend hours plotting with friends on how to keep our new love focused on us. Our mind is filled with thoughts this person every single second of every single day. Truly being in love is wonderful, and an important part of creating a loving relationship.
In fairy tales, we often see in the ending that they lived happily ever after. In real life, we know that to truly love someone takes time. You cannot love someone for whom and what they are when you met them 10 minutes ago, have sent emails back and forth but never met or dated, or that you’ve never seen angry. To truly love someone can take a long time depending on the situation you are in. Likewise, you cannot love someone for who and what they are if you aren’t honest with them about who and what YOU are. “Love” under those circumstances is just an illusion. A person in love should be honest and truthful. A relationship stemming out from an honest beginning can truly become something that can last for a long time. When you have had a few ups and downs, and share a bond created by affection, commitment, caring, security and trust — then you have love. Love creates in us a willingness to share of our lives and ourselves. We are an open book, risking hurt and heartbreak, trusting that the benefits of loving this person will far outweigh the risk! We are open to the fact that we can get both get positive and negative effects from being in love.
You may be one of the lucky ones who can find someone they are deeply in love with. You may be like Cinderella, Fiona, Sleeping Beauty and other princesses who have found their princes. But as fantasy differs from reality in a very big way, try to remember that in love, there are sacrifices and compromises to be made but the result are great rewards. To be truly in love is a wonderful feeling that no one can rightly explain.
